What are signs that my toddler’s speech delay needs professional attention?

Trust your gut—if you’re concerned, it’s worth exploring.

Some speech variability is normal, but there are clear signs when extra support can help.

Early action doesn’t mean you’re overreacting—it means you’re advocating.

Many toddlers talk late or speak in their own way—but that doesn’t mean every delay is harmless. You don’t need to panic, but you also don’t need to wait. Speech-language pathologists often say: “When in doubt, check it out.”

Here are signs that your toddler’s speech delay may need professional support:

• Your child isn’t using any words by 18 months.

  Even simple words like “mama” or “ball” should be emerging by this age.

• They say fewer than 50 words by age 2.

  And they aren’t combining two words like “more juice” or “go outside.”

• They don’t respond to their name or basic directions.

  This could signal a broader communication or auditory processing concern.

• They rely mostly on gestures, grunting, or pulling you.

  If their frustration is growing because they can’t express themselves verbally, it’s time to get support.

• You notice regression—words they used are now gone.

  Sudden loss of skills should always be addressed promptly.

• Their speech is hard to understand even to you.

  By age 2, parents should understand about 50% of what their child says. By age 3, closer to 75%.

• You feel like something’s off—even if others say “they’ll catch up.”

  You know your child best. You don’t need permission to get help.

Getting an evaluation doesn’t mean something is “wrong”—it means you’re being proactive. Many speech delays are easily addressed with early support.

If you’re worried about your toddler’s speech, the best step is to ask—not wait.

Trust your instincts, and know you’re not alone.