My toddler isn’t interested in books at all—how can I help build their vocabulary?

Books aren’t the only path to language—connection is.

Your toddler’s brain builds vocabulary through real-world words, not just story time.

If your toddler doesn’t love books, you haven’t missed your chance—you just need new ways in.

Not all toddlers sit still for stories—and that’s okay. What matters most is hearing rich, connected language in everyday life. The more words your child hears in safe, responsive interaction, the more language their brain absorbs.

Here’s how to build vocabulary when books don’t work (yet):

• Narrate real life.

  Talk out loud during daily tasks: “I’m washing the cup… now pouring water… here’s your cup!” This builds natural, contextual vocabulary.

• Use bath time and playtime as ‘word time.’

  Toddlers learn best when their hands are busy. Describe what they’re doing: “You’re splashing! The duck is floating!”

• Sing everything.

  Turn simple moments into songs: “We’re putting on your socks…” Rhythm makes words stick.

• Follow their lead.

  Talk about what they care about—blocks, balls, bugs. Interest fuels attention, which fuels learning.

• Use word-rich routines.

  Diaper changes, snack prep, and bedtime are great chances to repeat the same phrases each day—repetition builds mastery.

• Try interactive books or wordless books.

  Instead of reading word-for-word, talk about what’s happening in the pictures. “Where’s the dog? What’s he doing?”

• Celebrate all forms of communication.

  Gestures, signs, babble—they all count. Every attempt is part of your toddler’s language journey.

Books are just one way in. What matters most is language wrapped in relationship.